Daily
Recovery Readings
God grant me the
Serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
and Wisdom to know the difference.
Thy will, not mine, be done.
November 22, 2008
Daily
Reflections
ONLY TWO SINS
. . . . there are only two sins; the first is to
interfere with the growth of another human being,
and the second is to interfere with one's own growth.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 542
Happiness is such an elusive state. How often do my
"prayers" for others involve "hidden" prayers for my
own agenda? How often is my search for happiness a
boulder in the path of growth for another, or even
myself? Seeking growth through humility and acceptance
brings things that appear to be anything but good,
wholesome and vital. Yet in looking back, I can see
that pain, struggles and setbacks have all contributed
eventually to serenity through growth in the program.
I ask my Higher Power to help me not cause another's
lack of growth today - or my own.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
I have got rid of most of my boredom. One of the
hardest things that a new member of A.A. has to
understand is how he can stay sober and not be bored.
Drinking was always the answer to all kinds of boring
people and boring situations. But once you have taken
up the interest of A.A., once you have given it your
time and enthusiasm, boredom should not be a problem
to you. A new life opens up before you that can be
always interesting. Sobriety should give you so many
new interests in life that you shouldn't have time
to be bored. Have I got rid of the fear of being bored?
Meditation For The Day
"If I have not charity, I am become as sounding brass or
a tinkling cymbal." Charity means to care enough about
your fellow man to really want to do something for
him. A smile, a word of encouragement, a word of love,
goes winged on its way, simple enough it may seem,
while the mighty words of an orator fall on deaf ears.
Use up the odd moments of your day in trying to do
some little thing to cheer up your fellow man.
Boredom comes from thinking too much about yourself.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that my day may be brightened by some little
act of charity. I pray that I may try today to overcome
the self-centeredness that makes me bored.
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As Bill Sees It
Rebellion Or
Acceptance, p.293
All of us pass through the times when we can pray only with the
greatest exertion. Occasionally we go even further than this. We
are seized with a rebellion so sickening that we simply won't pray.
When these things happen, we should not think too ill of ourselves.
We should simply resume prayer as soon as we can, doing what we
know to be good for us.
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A man who persists in prayer finds himself in possession of great
gifts. When he has to deal with hard circumstances, he finds he can
face them. He can accept himself and the world around him.
He can do this because he now accepts a God who is All--and who
loves all. When he says, "Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be
Thy name," he deeply and humbly means it. When in good
meditation and thus freed from the clamors of the world, he knows
that he's in God's hands, that his own ultimate destiny is really
secure, here and hereafter, come what may.
1. TWELVE AND TWELVE, p. 105
2. GRAPEVINE, JUNE 1958
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Walk In Dry Places
Too
smart to stay sober
Humility
"I've never seen anybody who's too dumb to stay sober. But I've met a
few people who were too smart." These wise words by an older
member sum up what we sometimes see.... people who feel turned off by
the program because it seems to simple and involves so many people of
ordinary education and backgrounds.
Alcoholism is much like other diseases in the way it strikes all
people. Diabetes, for example, victimizes people of all
intelligence and education levels. We could never believe that
being smart would give us an advantage in dealing with such an
illness.
In the same way, the very smart person, has no edge over others in
gaining sobriety. In fact, pride in such gifts can be a stumbling
block. It can be a barrier to the simple acceptance and surrender
needed for success in the 12 Step Program.
We do have many very smart people in AA. They are also wise
enough to know that nobody can outsmart John Barleycorn.
We can feel grateful for mental abilities and education that halp us
get along in the world. Our sobriety, however, is a separate type
of gift that we did not create.
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Keep It Simple
We are healed of a suffering only be experiencing it in full.
---Marcel Proust
We must never forget our past. We need to remember the power that our
illness has over us. Why? So we can remember how our recovery began. So
we can remember we’re not cured. So we can tell our stories.
We must remember how we acted. Why? So we don’t act and think like
addicts. Most of us had a poor relationships with friends, family, and
ourselves. We need to remember how lonely we felt. That way, we’ll make
recovery grow stronger One Day at a Time.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, help me always remember how my
illness almost destroyed me.
Help me face the pain of these memories.
Action for the Day: I will talk about my past life with those who
support my recovery. I will
tell them what it is that I must remember about my past.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
BILL'S STORY
Thus was I convinced that God is concerned with us humans when we want
Him enough. At long last I saw, I felt, I believed. Scales of pride and
prejudice fell from my eyes. A new world came into view.
p. 12
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition
Twelve - "Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions,
ever reminding us to place principles before personalities."
But
in the beginning, anonymity was not born of confidence; it was the
child of our early fears. Our first nameless groups of alcoholics were
secret societies. New prospects could find us only through a few
trusted friends. The bare hint of publicity, even for our work, shocked
us. Though ex-drinkers, we still thought we had to hide from public
distrust and contempt.
p. 184
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A day of worry is more exhausting than a week of work.
--Cited in The Best of BITS & PIECES
We all have ability. The difference is how we use it.
--Stevie Wonder
Forgive yourself for your faults and your mistakes and move on.
--Les Brown
It is in the silence of the heart that God speaks.
--Mother Teresa
Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming
gardeners who
make our souls blossom.
--Marcel Proust
Gratitude is the heart's memory.
--French proverb
Real thanksgiving is thanks-living.
--unknown
We don't need more to be thankful for, we need to be more thankful.
--unknown
Life's little duties should never come before love. Make time for those
you care about.
--unknown
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
OBESITY
"Obesity is really widespread."
-- Joseph O. Kern II
To be fat is to be lost. It is a self-imposed isolation that keeps
people sad. The fat is
the result of an addiction to a series of chemicals in food that
society finds
acceptable; the disease of bulimia is widespread.
But it can be changed. People can and do get well from a compulsion
around food by
surrendering to the reality of their compulsion. The people-pleasing
must be seen.
The mask must be removed. The pain in the family must be talked about.
Feelings
that have been buried behind the food for years should be expressed.
Feelings are to
be felt!
We need not remain fat, and recovery begins when we begin to have hope;
we begin to
love ourselves; we begin to believe in ourselves.
O Lord, You hear the prayer of all Your children help me to hear my
prayers, too!
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"I
will give thanks to the Lord with my whole heart."
Psalm 9:1
"Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, and into His courts with
praise. Be thankful to
him and bless his name."
Psalm 100:4
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Daily Inspiration
Make it your goal to be someone that you would like to spend the rest
of your life with. Lord, help me approach my day interested in
everything that happens so that my life will truly be an adventure.
Through the power of God within me, I am stronger than any of my
circumstances. Lord, I seek, I knock and I ask and You are always there
and ready to give me the miracles that I need.